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Provisional Results: NRM sweeps Bugiri Divisions

NRM Secretary General Justin Kasule Lumumba

PROVISIONAL results from today’s elections indicate that NRM has swept majority positions in the Divisions of Eastern and Western that constitute Bugiri Municipality.

In Western Division, the NRM flag bearer for the post of Chairperson Mr. Mukoova Sunday Moses has won in 11 out of the 13 Polling Stations whose results have so far been received. The Division has 15 Electoral Areas. UPC’s Balikoowa Ali finished 2nd, FDC’s Bukuba Andrew is 3rd, Mpaso Jamir and independent but JEEMA-leaning is 4th and an independent Sserwanga Ahamad trails in the 5th positions.

Provisional results below:

1. All Saints A-M
NRM 65
UPC 55
FDC 30
IND/JEEMA 08
IND 09

2. All Saints N-Z
NRM 57
UPC 51
FDC 20
IND/JEEMA 11
IND 05

3. Jubilee Polling Station
NRM 113
UPC 85
FDC 31
IND/JEEMA 00
IND 13

4. Crane High Sch
NRM 116
UPC 74
FDC 96
IND/JEEMA 03
IND 08

5. Hindochs P/S East
NRM 49
UPC 35
FDC 08
IND/JEEMA 01
IND 10

6. Mwanamugimu
NRM 48
UPC 64
FDC 21
IND/JEEMA 00
IND 04

7. Hindicha P/S West
NRM 35
UPC 18
FDC 08
IND/JEEMA 00
IND 06

8. Busanzi Mosque S.S
NRM 114
UPC 22
FDC 21
IND/JEEMA 00
IND 01

9. Busanzi Mosque Pri Sch
NRM 90
UPC 21
FDC 22
IND/JEEMA 03
IND 02

10. St. Peters
NRM 44
UPC 57
FDC 09
IND/JEEMA 00
IND 03

11. Bukooli College
NRM 97
UPC 78
FDC 05
IND/JEEMA 03
IND 05

12. Bukooli Tech A-N
NRM 142
UPC 57
FDC 32
IND/JEEMA 01
IND 07

13. Bukooli College N-Z
NRM 147
UPC 45
FDC 30
IND/JEEMA 01
IND 02

Pending Results:
1. Al-Jama Polling Station
2. St. Luke Polling Stations

Party communications chief, Rogers Mulindwa says the today’s win is an indicator that NRM candidate, John Oketcho will win the Friday Parliamentary polls.

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Nebbi man suspected of killing wife for supporting NRM

Calls for Political Co-existence: NRM's Richard Todwong

NEBBI: Ms. Anirwoth Winnie of Okeyo Village, Nyacara Ward, Abindu Division in Nebbi Municipality has been laid to rest this Tuesday afternoon after being murdered by her FDC boy friend on accusation of supporting NRM.

NRM Deputy SG Hon. Richard Todwong has attended the burial on behalf of the Party.

Todwong called on the opposition to respect the rule of law ushered into this country by NRM in 1986.

He said there is no reason one should kill his fiance for simply supporting a party of their choice.

Still in Nebbi Municipality, another woman only identifies as Zaithum has been disowned by her husband on similar grounds.

Zaithum’s husband accused her of supporting an NRM candidate in the area.

She has however vowed to remain supportive to the party despite this domestic torture.

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India signs MoU with Uganda to harness Defence and cultural cooperation

President Museveni addressing India's Prime Minister and his delegation at State House Entebbe.

India has signed a memorandum of understanding (MoU) with Uganda to harness cultural cooperation, exchange programmes, film production, Defence, and establishment of a regional materials testing laboratory in ­­­­Uganda.

After China, India is the second largest imports to Uganda, at the conclusion of 2017, Uganda imported goods worth $700m however 2015 India was the largest origin of imports to Uganda with average rate of $1.2bn. MoU was ratified by the Narendra Modi, the prime minister of India and president Museveni on behalf of Ugandans.

Remarking after signing, Museveni said both countries emphasized trade, investment and tourism for supporting the prosperity of Indian people by buying their products as they purchase Ugandan products.

He lauded Modi for causing a wave of change in India through promotion of efficient and innovation rather than worshiping bureaucracy hence putting India the list of fastest growing economies.

“Whatever India makes, we should import it as value addition especially machinery, Indian tourists who jets in for tourism, leave us with dollars to balance our trade accounts, with the reviving of national carrier, Ugandan tourism move to another level,” said the President.

City tycoon Sudhir Ruparelia and his son Rajiv who is Managing Director Ruparelia Group of companies attended the function at State House.

“When we were fighting colonialism, we worked together, now we are working together to develop the third world and I am very happy to be working with the Prime Minister of India,” said Museveni.

In his remarks the prime minister of India Narendra Modi said, his country is ready to further and strengthen cooperation ties with Uganda, “We have agreed to supply Uganda peoples Defence forces (UPDF) with ambulances and other items as discussed with President Museveni,” he added.

On behalf of India, Modi delivered $200million of credit for economic transformation of Uganda, “Uganda has always been close to our hearts and will continue to be,” he said

The he offered to build a convention center of Mahatma Ghandi in Jinja.

During his term in office Modi has been credited for fighting against corruption and contributed towards the improvement of relations with Islamic nations in the Middle East, such as Bahrain, Iran, Saudi Arabia, and the United Arab Emirates, as well as with Israel.

Modi is in the country of a two days state visit and tomorrow is expected to address parliament before leaving for South Africa.

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Museveni expected in Bugiri to seal party win

The ruling NRM National Chairman President Yoweri Kaguta Museveni will campaign in the new Municipality of Bugiri this Wednesday afternoon.

According to NRM Communications chief, Rogers Mulindwa, Mr Museveni will campaign for the party flag bearers at different levels of leadership that include the Member of Parliament, the Mayor and councilors.

“He is expected here any time anytime tomorrow but there is already visible excitement in the entire Municipality and at Bukooli Technical College in anticipation of his arrival.

Suspporters of NRM’s John Francis Oketcho have painted the new municipality yellow ahead of the arrival of the national party chairman.

Secretary General, Justine Kasule Lumimba together with a team of senior officials have been in Bugiri since last week. They camped there to ensure that NRM wins all the seats in the Friday July 27th polls.

Initially, Museveni was scheduled to be in Bugiri yesterday but the programme was changed that he would spend the whole of it in Njeru, another new municipality to campaign for the party candidates there.

Thorough ground mobilization has been well done under the overall supervision of a the Secretary General.

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The annual Rolex festival set for 19 August

The Rolex: Rolex festival is back. To be held next month at Uganda Museum

By Maria Nassiwa

Kampala: The annual celebration of the Rolex festival is back in the heart of Kampala and will be held at Uganda museum on August-19-2018.

This 3rd edition of the event was announced on 3rd July at independence monument grounds.

Participations in various activities like face painting play stations, bouncing castles, celebrity cookouts, rolex cooking competition and very many activities.

According to Enid Mirembe the CEO of rolex festival she says that this event is aimed at youth motivation and hygiene sensitization.

“I purposely came up with this event first of all to promote small scale medium enterprises, creation of employment to the youth and hygiene sensitization in their business,” said Mirembe.

The rolex is simply prepared by rolling together a chapatti and spiced omelette which can take about 3 minutes to prepare and goes for 2,000 shs only.

Rolex is the fastest growing new African fast food and it was earlier ranked by CNN later got applauses form other news outlets like BBC and CGTN.

The 2nd edition of the rolex festival which was held last year in august was attended by hundreds of people with locals and foreigners indulging on different tastes of rolex.

Entrance fee will be 10,000 shs for adults and 5,000 shs for children, performances from different musicians like Cindy, Vinka, Wembly, Fik Fameica, Eddy Wizzy, and many more.

Together with its sponsors, Coca Cola, KCCA, Shell Gas, Miss Tourism Uganda, Galaxy FM, Uganda Tourism Board, and Kaswa, Flour, the rolex festival has become an inspiration for many to join the business.

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Coffee exports fetch Uganda $492m

Uganda exported 4.46 60-kilogram bags million bags of coffee in the period July 2017 to June 2018), fetching the country US $492 million, the Uganda Coffee Development Authority says in the latest report for June.
The figures showed an increase of 6.46 per cent and 0.45 per cent in quantity and value respectively, when compared to those realized in the previous period.

However, coffee exports in June 2018 comprised 320,339 60-kilo bags worth US $33.60 million. The country exported 254,822 bags of Robusta worth US$25.43 million and 65,517 bags of Arabica worth US $8.16 million. However, the June 2018 figures posted a decrease of 25.60 per cent and 32.25 per cent in quantity and value respectively from the same month last year.

The destinations of Uganda’s coffee exports during the month of June 2018 shows that exports to the European Union (EU) countries amounted to 201,931 bags lower than 205,215 bags exported in the previous month. This represented a 63.04 per cent of total exports.

EU was followed by Sudan with 43,640 bags (13.62 per cent) compared to 34,990 bags (10.97 per cent) in the previous month. India imported 21,106 (6.59 per cent) compared to 21,898 (6.86 per cent) in the previous month.

The USA imported 15,369 bags (4.80 per cent) compared to 16,500 (5.17 per cent) in the previous month while Morocco imported 12,968 (4.05 per cent) compared to 8,634 (2.71 per cent) in May.
Coffee exports to Africa amounted to 60,100 bags, a market share of 18.76 per cent compared to 48,095 (15.08 per cent) bags the previous month.

Coffee exports in the month of July is projected to be 378,000 bags since the main season in Masaka and South Western regions is at its tail end.

Global analysis
Coffee exports for May 2018 were 9.27 million bags, which was 12.4 per cent lower compared to May 2017. Total exports for the first eight months of coffee year 2017/18 were 79.95 million bags, which was a decrease of 0.5 per cent.

The 2017/18 global production is still estimated at 158.56 million bags compared to 159.05 million bags, a decrease of 0.3 per cent from last year. Arabica production is estimated to reduce by 6.6 per cent to 97.16 million bags while Robusta is projected to increase by 11.5 per cent to 61.40 million bags.

Africa’s production is expected to increase by 5.3 per cent from last year with an output of 17.30 million bags. Global consumption is projected to increase by 1.3 per cent at 159.92 million bags with major increases noted in Asia and Oceania countries and South America.

Planting
The report shows that a total 240,425,353 coffee seedlings were available for planting in the five coffee growing regions in first planting season of 2017/2018 (March and May 2018), of which 189,201 seedlings were allocated and 163,085,239 of them confirmed planted.

Comparing with the last coffee planting season September/ November 2017, a total of 131,019,698 coffee seedlings were planted in 102 coffee growing districts out of the 157,063,064 coffee seedlings that were available in the 2,089 nurseries.

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Isabel Dos Santos: The fall of Africa’s richest woman

END OF THE ROAD: Isabel dos Santos

Just think for a minute. In a two-year span, a father gave his daughter, among several contracts, four that were worth over US $22 billion. The father is then President José Eduardo dos Santos, and the daughter is Isabel, Africa’s richest woman. These were the golden days of the presidential family’s capture of Angola. Period.

In the past month, with a stroke of a pen, General João Lourenço has annulled the four egregious contracts. The former “princess” is crying foul, and is threatening to sue the Angolan state however, the state is calling out her bluff. Her fortune is about to tumble like a house of cards, just as her father’s power fell flat once he left office after 38 years.

Through her father’s presidential decrees, Isabel built her fortune. Now, ironically, the man her father personally chose to replace him is first and foremost taking away the family’s fortunes that are tied with the state, thus recapturing it from their thieving hands.
Let us just review these four contracts.

The master plan
In 2015, Dos Santos appointed his daughter to lead the Luanda Metropolitan Master Plan, budgeted at US $15 billion, to revamp the capital city. Therefore, her shell company, Urbinvest, had the monopoly of the project.

Back in the day, there was no one smarter and more competent in the country than Isabel dos Santos. Public tender, and transparency became silly anti-development jargon even for foreign investors whose main mission had become to partner with the power gatekeepers. There was an international spin that cast Isabel dos Santos as a positive story for Africa, as she was hailed the most successful businesswoman on the continent. And the reality of her looting of the country under her kleptocratic father was downplayed or outright ignored.

Dams for the Damned
That same year, through Presidential Order 58/15, Dos Santos also awarded Isabel dos Santos the construction of the Caculo-Cabaça dam and hydropower station for US $4.5 billion.

The powerful China Gezhouba Group Corporation (CGGC) had initially entered into a 50/50 consortium with Isabel’s shell company, Niara Holding, to win the contract and build the dam. The Industrial Commercial Bank of China (ICBC) secured the financing for Angolan oil in return. A year later, inexplicably Dos Santos signed another order adding an extra US $500 million for the daughter’s joint venture, thus totaling US $5 billion. Somewhat generous, she lowered her share in the joint-venture to 40 per cent.
What was the rationale for this dam? It will be built 19 kilometers away from the recently built dam and hydropower station of Laúca, which cost over US $4 billion. It will be the fourth dam and hydropower station built along the same River Kwanza in a stretch of some 130 kilometers.

Corimba coastal road
Another one Isabel dos Santos’ contracts slashed by President Lourenço is the planned 7 kilometers coastal road from Luanda’s city center to the Corimba neighborhood, which would include an area of 400 hectares reclaimed from the sea. This is a contract worth over US $700 million, to be financed by the International and Commercial Bank of China and the Chinese Eximbank. Her company Urbinvest S.A had the monopoly of the project, which would include 700 hectares “of high density mixed-use residential and commercial development”.

The Port
Last August, while everyone was busy with the elections, Dos Santos was looting to the last minute to leave as much business ventures as possible to his family. He signed the Presidential Decree 207/17 that granted Isabel dos Santos’ Atlantic Ventures S.A the contract to build and have the exclusive management rights to the port for 30 years (plus 15).
Unsurprisingly, the state provided the sovereign guarantee for this shell company, which had been fully registered the month before, to secure US $1.5 billion in funding for the operation. Furthermore, the state Port Authority (Porto de Luanda) was instructed to buy 40 per cent shares of the newly established company for an undisclosed amount.
Now, Isabel dos Santos wants to sue the state for an alleged breach of contract. On June 20, in a scathing rebuttal of her statement, the Ministry of Transport called out her father’s abuse of power and her lies.
The legal argument used by Isabel dos Santos’ enterprise is quite baffling: “The law applicable for this project is the Law on the Port Concessions and it was correctly applied by the former government in this case. The Law on Public Contracts – which could have demanded the holding of a public tender – does not apply to contracts for Port Concessions, as the current government underscores now.”

According to the Ministry of Transport’s press release, José Eduardo dos Santos awarded the contract without any tender and “without observing any formalisms”.

Furthermore, the ministry called out Isabel dos Santos’ lie that “Atlantic Ventures was set up as a partnership including national and international investors who are leaders in the port industry”. It also made clear that the state would cough up the investment.

The government revealed the names fronting for Isabel dos Santos as shareholders of Atlantic Ventures S.A. Her cousin and personal lawyer, Fidel Kiluanje Araújo, holds 99 per cent of the share, while four other sidekicks equally split the remaining one percent. The government says that it is public knowledge that none of the names mentioned have any background experience to undertake such a major project, and that neither Isabel dos Santos nor any foreign investor is part of the said company.

Legal analyst Rui Verde has studied the laws applicable to the contract and simply writes that Atlantic Ventures S.A legal argument does not fly: “There is no legal norm that makes an exception of public tender for a port concession contract. Thus, it must be subjected to the normal procedures for administrative contracts. That is the Law on Public Contracts (Law 9/16) [of 2016].”

The nightmares to come
Isabel dos Santos’ insatiable greed to devour Angola’s political economy was only matched by her own arrogance that the country was hers for the taking.

In 2016, when her father appointed her to head the National Oil Company Sonangol, Isabel dos Santos had it all in her pocket. She finally had the oil sector at the tip of her fingers, just as she had all the diamonds (Angola is the fifth largest producer in the world). Through the usual presidential power, the then first daughter’s companies had the exclusive rights to sell Angolan diamonds abroad (in partnership with the state on paper).

However, Lourenço’s broom swept her out of Sonangol. The blunt official justification to push her out of the diamond selling venture said it all: Her partnership with the state only represented losses for the latter and gains for her. It was broad daylight robbery. She also threatened to sue the state diamond company Sodiam for cutting her loose.

What goes around, comes around
But it is her brazen tenure in Sonangol and her intersected business interests with the State giant that underscores her rise and fall. They are all at risk of being severed as well, and one of them represents the core of her fortune. That is the telecom company UNITEL, in which both Sonangol and Isabel dos Santos have each 25% stakes. Sonangol was the initial investor in UNITEL, and there is no record that shows that she ever paid for her shares.

In the coming months, the Paris based International Court of Arbitration will decide on a US $3.5 billion lawsuit against her mainly. Portugal Telecom Ventures (taken over by the Brazilian telecom giant Oi) holds 25 per cent of UNITEL and lodged the complaint to reclaim unpaid dues worth US $600 million. The company is also suing for Isabel dos Santos’ self-serving management of the company’s revenues.

During her daddy’s reign, Isabel dos Santos used UNITEL as her piggy bank. Between 2012 and 2013, UNITEL lent US $465 million to UNITEL International Holdings (100 per cent owned by Isabel dos Santos) without the shareholders consent, for her business shopping sprees in Portugal. She simultaneously signed the contracts as the representative of the lender (UNITEL) and debtor (UNITEL International Holding), and set a 10 years maturity and 1 per cent interest rate to pay back the debt. Notwithstanding, another Isabel’s 100 per cent owned company, Tokeyna, bought UNITEL’s credit to her.

The accounting verified by Maka Angola shows that, the telecom company lost in the process US $315 million with such shuffling.
However, in 2014, the same Isabel dos Santos forfeited to receive her US $322 million dividend, which was converted into a loan for UNITEL with a 12 per cent interest rate. Consequently, as the accounts demonstrate, UNITEL lost US $315 million with the loan it provided to Isabel dos Santos, and she made a clean US $35 million profit by lending to UNITEL a year after. Last year, she withdrew US $458 million in dividends and debts from the telecom, including US $265 million for 2017. In essence, she started the process of leaving “no money behind”.

It is rumored that Sonangol is set to push her out of UNITEL by demanding a payback for all her wrongdoings. That would mean her fall from one of the main Angolan private banks, Banco Fomento de Angola (BFA), in which the telecom has a 51 per cent stake. Isabel dos Santos controls it, and sits on the board as its vice-president. Her personal lawyer, Jorge Brito Pereira (a Portuguese citizen) is the chairman of the bank’s General Assembly, while her fortune manager, Mário Leite da Silva (another Portuguese citizen) is the chairman of the board.

Without the Angolan cash cows, Isabel’s empire in Portugal, where she parked much of her international investments, will also become unsustainable. They depend on the former colony’s easy pickings.
Ultimately, this is the disheartening tale of an African woman who chose to be an insensitive and insatiable robber baron when she had the opportunity to be a transformer. She could have done some good for her own country and people, and still be filthy rich. Now it is the path of infamy…

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Uganda’s first aircrafts will jet in January 2019

Monica Ntege Azuba

Kampala: Works and Transport Minister, Monica Azuba says Uganda’s first aircraft will jet in 2019 following the payment of $120 million to a Canadian firm that manufactures and assemble aircrafts.

In efforts to enhance the country’s competitiveness by reducing the cost of air transport and easing connectivity to and from Uganda, government signed a memorandum of understanding with Airbus company and bombardier to deliver two airbuses (A330-800neo) and four CRJ900 regional jets at a cost of US $800,00 million and US $400,00 million respectively.

Speaking at Media Centre, Azuba said one aircraft CRJ900 is in January expected to be delivered by bombardier, the other three will be brought in a period of three months and airbuses will be imported in 2020, “The national carrier will be called Uganda Airlines Company limited,” she revealed.

Reviving of the insolvent National Airline is based on desire to improve the overall growth of Uganda’s air transport sector, by enhancing its competitiveness and turning its International Airport into a Regional transport hub.

Azuba watered down all allegations that the country is procuring outdated model of air buses that are not recommended by International Aviation saying A330-800 family of aircraft is the most popular aircraft in its class and preferred by the majority of airlines worldwide.

“A330-800 has the largest customer base in its class with 105 customers worldwide compared with only 41 customers for its direct competitor the B787 and it is 99 per cent commonality across in terms of spares and components which lowers the potential cost of maintenance for this aircraft compered to Boeing 787,” she said.

She said the country loses $450 million to various airline companies such as Ethiopian airways, Rwanda air, and South African airways and upon reviving national airline Ugandans will cut on costs incurred when using other companies.

National airline was liquidated in 2001 after it had become insolate leaving Ugandans at the mercy of foreign airlines.

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Six learning strategies today for new venture founders

Martin Zwilling

By Martin Zwilling

One of the simplest questions I get from aspiring entrepreneurs, and ironically one of the hardest, is “How do I start?” I want to tell them to just start anywhere, but I realize that most have no idea where anywhere is. They just aren’t prepared for the life they want, and are really asking me how to learn to be an entrepreneur. It takes more than passion and a course on business basics.

We all come from the era where our society and education prepared us for the labor market, meaning working for someone else as an information professional, factory worker, or retail associate. Now change is driving an opportunity society, where the next step is undefined, and entrepreneurs are in the forefront of the wave of people whose best skill is learning how to learn.

A while back I found a great book, “America’s Moment: Creating Opportunity in the Connected Age,” put together by a group of fifty current leaders from across American life, that points out well some of the tools that can help all of us learn how to learn in this rapidly changing world of new opportunities. I have adapted their key recommendations here for aspiring entrepreneurs:

Business gamification and simulation. Learning doesn’t have to be all work. We know now that people learn from a younger age, and keep coming back for more, from sources that are entertaining and educational (edutainment). With new tools like ThriveTime Show and GamEffective, people of any age can learn to start or take their business up a level.

Adaptive business advising and learning. Every business and every entrepreneur is at a different stage, so it’s time to seek out learning tools that can adapt to you, rather than the other way around. Universities and the marketplace are spawning tools like Brainly, which is a learning network or massively multi-player question and answer tool.

Help entrepreneurs with constant learning. The wealth of online education offerings is a great start, but is not enough. Business advisors need to be ready to help at every stage, and I see it beginning to happen. Yet many new entrepreneurs are hesitant, perhaps out of fear or ego. If you are not constantly learning, you are falling behind.

Mix business learning with doing. Entrepreneurs don’t need to know everything about business before they start. They do need the first few steps, and where to find the next steps. There is no standard course for this, but the answers are accessible online, if you know how to search, follow blogs, and interact with the relevant social media groups.

Business financial aid alternatives. Crowdfunding is just the latest alternative for assistance to entrepreneurs who need help, supplementing the existing alternatives of loans, grants, angel investors, venture capital and many others. These days, if you can’t find money, you haven’t tried hard enough or maybe your idea isn’t a good one.

Utilize business content curators and coaches. Potential resources available to entrepreneurs are enormous, but often under-utilized. The challenge is to find these just-in-time, including community and university startup incubators, accelerators, and advisors. Entrepreneurs should be monitoring online curator platforms and blogs.

In this new opportunity society, the personal traits for success have also changed from the industrial age and the information age. The days of long-term loyalty to an employer and methodically following direction are gone. Now the premium is on creativity, willingness to take a risk, and ability to keep up with change. Persistence and problem solving are sought-after virtues.

Nurturing these traits, and practicing incremental and continuous learning, are the best ways to start the life you want as an entrepreneur. Finally, before you start, you need to define what success means to you. It may include financial gain, but more likely the lasting satisfaction and happiness will result from your legacy of change in technology, or your impact on the social ecology of the world. If you can’t tell me where you want to go, I can’t really tell you how to start.

The Writer is a veteran startup mentor, executive, blogger, author, tech professional, and Angel investor. Published on Forbes, Entrepreneur, Inc.

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NTV’s Faridah Nakazibwe on love, sex, emotions and cheating

Faridah Nakazibwe

I have been in relationships and I have found out that love doesn’t guarantee the success of a relationship.

Love cannot help you stick to one person; after all, cheating isn’t always a product of not loving your partner especially to men.
In fact, loving someone doesn’t guarantee not falling in love with any other person.

Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, its works out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self-discipline.

You see, times will come when you’ll see more beautiful, handsome, intelligent, sexy, and curvy and God fearing people than the one you’re in a relationship with. In those times, Love will not help you, self-control will help you, emotional intelligence will help you, and commitment will help you.

No matter how you feel for someone, the person you’re committed to ranks first in your life. You think married people don’t see better people than the ones they married? You think they don’t feel funny sometimes? You think they don’t catch feelings?

They do. But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love.
We are too fond of loving when it’s convenient, when it’s sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.

After then, you’ll realize that the feelings have dropped; it’s now your responsibility to make it work, not love’s responsibility.

Building a relationship is hard work, it’s like building a career, and it’s like pursuing a dream. It’s always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you can make it work. Everyone falls in love, it takes no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only few do that.

Do you know how many people have fallen in love all through your life?
After counting the list, you’ll understand that if you continue that way, you’ll fill your life with stories of falling in love but none of building a relationship. That’s why we must find the person and commit to that one, Discipline yourself, bridle your emotions.

Relationships cannot be ready made. You must build it and it’s never always about love.
On the long run in marriages, it’s not love that keeps them together again.

In conclusion: The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong! Sticking to one person is not naturally, you must develop yourself to do that.
Relationships work out because of knowledge not feelings.

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